The Best Phone Sex
Many people shy away from The Best Phone Sex because of how explicit and vocal they have to be while over the phone. They will never be able to experience the beauty of it, on account of their shyness. We get it! It can be super intimidating. But if your someone who has sex “in person”, you can do it over the phone too.
Overcoming Initial Awkwardness
Remember that once the two of you ease into things, it won’t be awkward anymore. Each time I had phone sex with a boyfriend or even my fiancé, it felt weird at first but amazing later on. In life, it’s often the things that make us uncomfortable in the beginning that leave us feeling completely invigorated in the end. One way to look at it is how the person on the other end has nothing else to fantasize about but you in that moment. This alone is a huge compliment and turn-on, knowing you can make someone climax without even touching them.
Ways to Have the Best Phone Sex Experience
Always Get Permission and Talk About It First
There should never be a moment when you just jump into phone sex out of nowhere, unless it’s with someone you’ve been with for years. Sometimes, a person isn’t in the right frame of mind or in the right place to do it. They may even be far from their bed at the moment of impact, so always make sure first.
The two of you should discuss everything, literally everything. What do you not want him or her to say? Are there any trigger words? Is there anything that could immediately end the conversation? Plan it out and set it up like a date, but a sex date over the phone.
Ensure Your Environment is Suitable
Even if you’ve talked about it and your partner is ready to go, check the temperature of the room first. Are you ready to lay down and start this steamy, hot conversation, or do you have to cook dinner in five minutes? Make sure your mind is relaxed and you don’t have anything to do for at least a couple of hours.
Beyond just your environment, make sure you are comfortable and relaxed. You need to feel sexy and vulnerable. Sometimes a shower beforehand can help with that, or if you love doubles of everything, maybe you could have a pre-game orgasm.
Know What to Say and What Not to Say
Easing into phone sex is probably the hardest part. Sometimes, people start making noises before they say much at all. Make sure you’ve talked about the no-no words, the turn-offs, and, of course, the go-to words to make things come to a head.
For example, a woman may like the word ‘pussy’ but get very turned off by the c-word, as many women do. Men, on the other hand, may get upset if you even crack a smile when he pulls his pants down. It’s all about personal preferences and boundaries—we all have them.
Masturbate together
The best way to get the ball rollin’ is to start masturbating together, and letting each other know exactly what you are doing too. This is where your word play kicks in, and the tone of your voice can mean everything as well. Make sure you keep the tone in your voice low and calm, playful yet serious, and a little of everything all rolled up into one. Make the other person feel comfortable and be silly if you have to, to break the ice.
Masturbating together then letting each other know what you’re doing simultaneously will almost always set the mood and everything else just follows after. This is where you could start saying things that will set them off, something like “I’m getting really wet thinking about you” or “you’re making me so hard right now” are some of the best ice-breakers.
Utilize the Room Around You
We’re not saying to grab the nearest hairbrush and shove it inside you, but use things near you to enhance the pleasure. Have some porn? Turn it on and listen while you have fun with your partner. Prefer light, sexy music instead? Turn on your favorite CD to “bump and grind” too. And yes, if you have sex toys (or something sanitary that can double as a sex toy), go for it!
Enhancing the surrounding room with background noise or visuals, or using toys to boost the pleasure, will allow you to open up and be free during the phone sex experience.
Dirty Talk… More Dirty Talk… and Did We Say Talk Dirty?
One of the leading phone sex chat lines, PhoneSexChat.com, teaches us that talking dirty is the single most important thing about having an amazing phone sex experience—and I couldn’t agree more! You can’t have a great session over the phone with just moaning and noises; you’ve got to bring those feelings and actions to life.
After all, we can’t see what you’re doing, so you have to tell us.
Live Out a Fantasy
One of the hottest things a girl or guy could ever do for their partner is to allow them to live out their fantasy. So, if he’s always wanted to bang a hot nurse, guess who you’re going to be today? If she’s always wanted to hang on to some rock-hard firefighter’s muscles, get ready to whip out your hose! Since our brains are what gets us roaring and ready, you must get your mindset right and think about your partner in a sexy way for takeoff!
Relive a Hot, Steamy Moment of Yours
I’m sure the two of you have already had a hot, steamy, and sexual moment together. Rehash that moment or those hours of passion. While you’re touching yourself and they touch themselves, you can reminisce on how amazing that night was for you when he went so deep inside you for the very first time. Remind him how he made you cum faster than anyone ever has.
For him, he could let her know how tight she felt and how, on the night they made love on the couch, he almost couldn’t get it in a third time because she felt so good on his dick. Making them feel like the king or queen of the world, coupled with the hot, steamy moment you had and are having right now, is a surefire way to spice up the phone sex and make them cum… again.
Send Pics, Get on Skype/Facetime, and Add to the Fun
We’re living in a time where the phone is no longer just an apparatus to call someone. Now you can call someone, turn on the camera, and show your face (and body) too. Since we didn’t have this growing up in my days, I can only imagine how this will turn out if the phone by itself was a pleasure hero.
Don’t send too many pics and certainly don’t send pics of the same ‘thing’ over and over. Spice it up and leave something for him or her to imagine. Only use Skype or Facetime if you’re having phone sex with someone you really love or care about. Otherwise, you could end up on a porn site, and you certainly don’t want that. At least, not unless you’re getting paid, right?
And For The Finale:
Whatever you can do to entice your lover or partner and help them visualize what you are doing and how you are feeling, rather than just letting them hear you. Being able to see, know, and hear what it feels like when you pleasure yourself, for your partner, is a recipe for the best phone sex experience you’ll ever have!
Now, go pick up the phone and plan out that next phone sex session with your partner right away!
Take Your Fetishes and Kinks to the Next Level
Fetishes and kinks are nothing to be ashamed about. We all have them, and studies have shown that we tend to be a lot happier in life when we choose to embrace them and benefit from them.
Sadly, satisfying our kinks and benefiting from them is still not a totally acceptable norm in society. Luckily, there are platforms online that make it easy to satisfy these kinks and even connect with other people who share the same sexual interests that we do.
What’s more, for those who have the talent and who don’t mind showcasing it to the world, there is even an opportunity to achieve incredible financial freedom.
Earning Money from Kinks Online
Many people don’t know this, but it is indeed possible to earn thousands of dollars every week thanks to kinks and fetishes. How do you do this, you ask? By registering on adult platforms and putting on a show that reflects kinks and fetishes that you have, that others are curious about, and that they also share a love for.
Adult cam platforms are where people come to showcase their sexuality on cam shows and get rewarded for it. And what’s more, it has become common knowledge that models and broadcasters tend to garner more attention when they specialize on their kinks and fetishes.
Of course, an important question to consider, apart from identifying your kink, is which platform to register on.
Registering on the right cam platform can go a long way in making your life as a cam model a lot easier. Not only does it determine how much you’ll be able to earn, it also determines how big you’ll be able to grow.
For this reason, we usually recommend that our readers register on Chaturbate cam website.
Chaturbate
Chaturbate has an edge over its competitors thanks to the fact that it excels in pretty much every key metric you’ll want a cam platform to excel in.
It is simple to navigate, has an enticing rewards system, and of course it boasts of millions of users, and, with the right strategy and dedication, a significant chunk of them will become your loyal fans in no time.
Finding a Long-Lasting Connection
Apart from making money on these platforms, showcasing your kinks and fetishes on Chaturbate can also go a long way in helping you build long-lasting connections with similar minded people.
It is hard to find people in real life who like the same fetishes that we do. For those with really specific fetishes, it is almost impossible to share them with another person in the first place.
On the cam platforms, however, things are extremely easy. Not only are you safe from judgment, but you are even rewarded and admired for it. And of course you get to be in constant contact with the people who love you for what you do.
These are great recipes for making good friends and a solid connection with people.
Optimizing Your Chances
It is worth mentioning that there is a way you can optimize your chances on Chaturbate to achieve all of your goals. With the strategy, you put yourself in the best position to not only become popular and make a lot of money on the platform, but also to connect with like-minded people with the same sexual interests.
This strategy is also simple and straightforward enough. It is none other than customizing your profile. Chaturbate, you see, allows users to customize their profile with beautiful graphics.
This way they can stand out and communicate key information to people who visit their profile. You too can use this as a way to build curiosity and let people know what you’re into, and the things you’re willing to do. Doing this ensures you only get to connect with people who are also interested in what you’re interested in. And as mentioned earlier, template customization on Chaturbate is quite straightforward when you do it right.
All you have to do is visit Designurbate.com, gain access to their variety of profile design graphics and edit to suit your taste. What’s more, getting your design on Designurbate is totally free and the whole process can be completed in just a few minutes.