When people think about BDSM practices, two things mainly come to mind. One, is the well-known and successful “50 Shades of Grey” movie saga, and the other is pain. 

 

There are many taboos and prejudices surrounding this type of sexual practices. There is a common belief that it involves the humiliation of the other person through intense pain. A scenario in which only a few very specific kinks that few people can enjoy are practiced.

 

But nothing could be further from the truth. BDSM is not really like that. You can check it out as soon as you start reading or even practicing, alone with some penis plugs or with authentic experts like some of the Brisbane escorts who offer such services.

 

What does BDSM mean?

The acronym defines several practices beyond the fetishism and leather that society associates it to. First of all, B as in Bondage, which focuses on pleasure through the total or partial immobilization and binding of the partner or oneself. This is done with handcuffs, ropes or even special adhesive tapes. There are real experts who consider it an art, better known as Shibari.

 

Besides, what couple hasn’t tied themselves up, blindfolded themselves, or fantasized about doing so during sex play to get out of the routine and do something different? This could be understood as part or the beginning of Bondage.

 

Secondly, the D refers to Domination and Discipline. Followed by Sadism and Masochism. It happens because role play is performed in which there is a dominant and a submissive person. Always in a consensual manner, which is the true key to pleasurable BDSM. It can be performed at different levels and up to certain limits depending on the person. 

 

Tips to start practicing it…

If you want to try to represent these kind of fantasies, you have to be very clear about several things first:

 

Information. There are many video tutorials, forums, news, clubs, blogs, events, etc. where you can find information about this world and all its practices. There are many different practices as well as intensities and levels enjoyed by thousands of people around the world. But not all of them are the same and not everyone likes them. So the more information you have, the better you will be able to experience the ones you like best, and the more satisfaction you will have during them.

Safe, Sanitary and Consensual (SSC). Safe, Sanitary and Consensual are the three keys to BDSM. So it is very important to communicate between all the participants to make clear the limits and establish boundaries. Thus, many people state a clear safe word that serves to stop the action at any required time. All of it before starting with the fantasy, so that everyone involved can fully enjoy the experience.

 

Confidence and desire. It is necessary to have confidence in oneself and in one’s partner to start with this. If you don’t have it, it is very difficult to enjoy it and let yourself go. That’s why you can contact an expert the first few times or even go see some Delhi escorts with experience in these services. This way they will be able to serve as a guide to get advice from so oneself can then go practice alone. 

 

Forget about prejudice, shame and stereotypes. Each person lives pleasure and sexuality in their own way and there is nothing wrong with BDSM. Moreover, the dominant person does not always have to be the man or the male figure, but there are more and more mistresses or masters. Women who feel pleasure in having a dominant role in front of other people. Likewise there does not have to be kissing, caressing or penetration while practicing BDSM. There is a lot of freedom according to the tastes of each one.

 

Toys and accessories. There are plenty that can be purchased online or in the sex shops to make this experience complete. Depending on the BDSM experience you want. It is possible, that none is needed. But you can also choose from a wide variety of whips, plugs, handcuffs, masks, suits, whips… For the more and less daring.

 

These are just some of the most important tips to keep in mind when considering trying out BDSM. There are many reasons to start, and they are all equally valid. You may even try it once and never try it again. Sexual tastes are not static. As you grow up, according to your experiences, your environment, they will evolve and may change. So something you enjoy at 18 may not be as satisfying at 30 and vice versa. 

 

So, no matter how old you are, it is important to know yourself well and be open to new options and possibilities. Trying new things and having new experiences can awaken feelings you never would have thought of having.