Penis Plug Pain and Pleasure | Sex Toy Guide
Penis Plugs can be used within a controlled and safe environment that prevents harm to the body. During urethral play with a Penis Plug, the wearer will pay attention to the tightness of the penis plug whilst is stretches the urethra to become wider, they will experience the first uncomfortable feeling of insertion of a new Penis Plug, the need for reapplying lubrication, the feeling of reinsertion, the feeling of the textures of the material, the arousal of masturbation, the build-up of climax and at the removal of the Penis Plug.
It is extremely important to note that the urethra is an extremely sensitive area filled with nerve endings. During urethral play people sometimes purposefully use Penis Plugs to cause low amounts of pain within their body through controlled stimulation. It may sound strange to gain something out of pain but there is a clear and logical reason why it is a sexual experience.
Pain is experienced by everyone. Pain warns us that our bodies are in danger of being injured. We always find ourselves becoming uncomfortable around objects that can cause harm like fire and knives. This is our body’s natural instinct to warn us that we may be in danger. Pain normally has negative connotations that we rarely have a look to see whether it can affect us in any other ways.
Pain within the BDSM, fetish and kink community can be a pleasurable experience. Some people deliberately make themselves feel controlled pain to feel the pleasure. This can be seen within the mainstream movie named “50 Shades of Grey”. Where Christian Grey a billionaire is interviewed by shy Ana Steele. Their relationship develops where they use a mix of control, touch, pleasure and pain within the couple’s sexual lifestyle. Christian Grey introduces Ana to a world of bondage ropes, whips and a BDSM contract made of strict rules. Ana finds the BDSM world to be captivating and allows herself to explore it, in his care.
When touch and pain link with emotion and desires their seems to be a whirlwind of sexual fulfilment which is why Penis Plug couples play can be an especially important activity for those people who enjoy painful pleasure.

When we are touched our body sends stimuli to our brain providing us with a feeling of comfort. The touch can be as small as a caress or as big as a hug. The touch creates the release of Oxytocin which is a chemical in our bodies that bonds us with other people. It is perceived that the more touch we experience with another person, the easier and stronger the relationship bond will be with that person because of the high amounts of Oxytocin flooding our brain. This is why people desire to be touched.
It has been said touch can help people follow orders, due to the small release of Oxytocin, our willingness to please and give to someone increases. People who gain sexual gratification form following other people’s sexual orders within the BDSM community are known as submissive.
In some people their brain changes the outcome of a sexual touch. The brain can change a painful sexual touch to something that is pleasurable. It is more likely to happen if the pain has been done by someone who may cares for us. The feeling can become increased if the person loves us. So if someone were to be reprimanded by a paddle to the bottom by their partner, they could find it sexually thrilling because their brain had just rewarded the touch with Oxytocin. This may be the reason you find yourself biting the other person’s lip and they experience a pleasure angst of wanting for you.
There are two types of people within this BDSM style relationship is named “Sadomasochism” that includes two people: the sadist and the masochist:
- Sadism is the gaining of sexual pleasure from giving pain
- Masochism is the gaining of sexual pleasure from receiving pain
These sexual cravings to be touched or experience painful pleasure are considered to be a normal part of sex. For people who enjoy BDSM Penis Plug play does not have to end with an orgasm but can be found from the pleasurable experiences during urethral play. The release of Oxytocin can make the experience feel like there is something psychologically more.
Penis Plug and Urethral Wands can cause pain through the selection of picking a size. Penis Plug only recommends to pick a urethral sex toy that is the same size as your urethra. When people participate in urethral play you must be careful not to cause micro tears. Sometimes there is pain during urethral removal. It is important to use the Penis Plug Guide by reading our safety guidelines. By inserting a urethral sex toy incorrectly you can cause an alternate gap which will cause scaring.
The masochist may also enjoy using a urethral sex toy that has a catheter attachment. The catheter is inserted into the bladder and makes the wearer is unable to regulate their bladder functions. The wearer may urinate without control. The feelings of pleasure are built through submitting to control whilst experience a sense of touch through the urethral sex toy.
Pain within the BDSM, fetish and kink community can be a pleasurable experience. Some people deliberately make themselves feel controlled pain to feel the pleasure. This can be seen within the mainstream movie named “50 Shades of Grey”. Where Christian Grey a billionaire is interviewed by shy Ana Steele. Their relationship develops where they use a mix of control, touch, pleasure and pain within the couple’s sexual lifestyle. Christian Grey introduces Ana to a world of bondage ropes, whips and a BDSM contract made of strict rules. Ana finds the BDSM world to be captivating and allows herself to explore it, in his care.
When touch and pain link with emotion and desires their seems to be a whirlwind of sexual fulfilment which is why Penis Plug couples play can be an especially important activity for those people who enjoy painful pleasure.